OH! MY LOVABLE
It was a day in the spring season. Birds are chirping in the early morning when
the sun beams slowly from the east. The
people of Chennai got ready for the day.
Nesarathnam woke up put off the alarm and became so excited by hearing
the birds cry. Then been to complete his
daily routines and he is expecting the newspaper Business Line eagerly, as he
invested a huge amount in the share last week.
Nesarathnam
is an industrialist in Chennai. He heads
more than four companies excluding a car showroom. On the whole, he earns about 25 crores of
turnover per annum. His beloved wife
Madhivadhani, stretched the coffee cup along with the saucer. Even the middle-aged Madhivadhani was so
uncommonly beautiful lady. That is why
she attracted the mind of her husband Nesarathnam. After a few sips of coffee, he romantically
hugged her and left her immediately because their two teenage daughters Madhira
and Mandhira arrived there to greet the day.
They watched the romantic state of their parents, delighted, and asked
"Please appa! How did you marry our amma? When did you meet and how did
you propose to her? Please clear our curiosity"
He was being
asked by his daughters, and Nesarathnam started to narrate their love story of
them.
After a few
minutes, Nesarathnam recalled his early days.
When Nesarathnam studied II M.Com in the Government Arts College at
Pudukkottai, he proposed to a beautiful girl who was studying third-year U.G.
Economics in the same college. Her name
was Mandakini. She was a daughter of
poor parents and was so intelligent that Nesarathnam was attracted.
When
Nesarathnam approached and shared his wish with her, Mandakini refused by
thinking of her strict father. But,
Nesarathnam went to the house of Mandakini and met her father. Somehow, he managed to share his opinion and
wooed to marry her. But Solaiyappan, the
father of Mandakini politely started to speak.
Mr.
Nesarathnam, we are the tenth generation of the family belonging to this
Pudukkottai. I think you are from the
North Arcot region.
Meanwhile,
Madhivadhani the younger sister of Mandakini, brought a water jug with a
tumbler and kept them on the table.
Oh! Young
man! Have some water please, said Solaiyappan.
After a while he continued, listen young man! We have a different way of
lifestyles based on our regional customs. Though you worship Goddess
Renukadevi, I think you all used to eat non-veg also. But we are vegetarian and also stick with the
strict principles of MeyVazhichaalai*1.
You may have
the idea that anybody can love anyone.
But, after having married, the couple should face many socio-regional
impediments.
Nesarathnam
kept quiet for some time and wished to come out from the old stigma.
Solaiyappan
continued, Oh! Man! We have been in this region for many generations. I can't give my daughter in marriage to
someone who belongs to the other region.
Nesarathnam
replied though I am a descendant of Cheyyar*2, I will stay and work in a distant
land which will be far away from my native.
Your daughter is also educated, and we both are capable of facing any
crisis.
Of course
young man! Intervened Solaiyappan. But
after marrying you my daughter has to accustom to your family's lifestyle. She could not tolerate these troubles. Moreover, this is an issue that needs to get
the consent of the Munshief*3. I can't break the rules of the Grama Panchayath.
I am unable to consider your proposal. You may give up your idea and you can
leave.
Then, Solaiyappan
asked Mandakini, "Oh! My dear child! What do you think? Whether I am
correct are not? Because this is your
matter. I should not trouble you. Though I have sent him away, if you wish to
marry him, I will rethink about it and talk to the village heads.
Mandakini
started to speak, "Appa, he is a very nice guy with extraordinary
discipline. But you have rightly pointed
out the differences. But .....,".
Mandaakini's
silence made Solaiyappan realize that his daughter was also in love with Nesarathnam. This made Solaiyappan recall all the earlier
episodes of that regional bias.
With great disappointment,
Nesarathnam got back from there and reached his home. He again and again remembered the words of
Solaiyappan. He was mentally disturbed
by thinking about the regional bias and related cultural differences. He wanted to break free everyone, who were
entrapped in these geographical barriers.
With the
help of his education, he planned to meet the concerned authorities to gain
clear knowledge about existing restrictions based on regional bias. He was unable to forget Mandakini. Somehow he managed to spend the days.
After three months, the exam results
came. Nesarathnam was declared that he
was the University's first and the Gold Medallist. Moreover, he concentrated on his professional
course C.A. The tutor in the coaching centre
upon observing Nesarathnam's dull demeanour, guided him to talk to the chief of
the Panchayat in Pudukkottai.
Meanwhile,
Solaiyappan indulged in getting permission for Mandakinis's marriage with
Nesarathnam, from the village Panchayat.
One day,
Kalaimani, Solaiyappan's friend visited the latter. He switched on the calling bell. Madhivadhani opened the door and invited,
"Hi! Kalaimani uncle! How are you? Please welcome".
"Appa! Kalaimani uncle is
visiting us. Come here Appa", she
called.
Then, Solaiyappan came to the
reception room and said, Hi! Kalai! Welcome. How are you? How is your health? How are your wife Marakatham and children
Gopal and Gomathi? Solaiyappan asked
many questions. Before Kalamani's
answer, Solaiyappan told Madhivadhani, Amma Madhi, come here, fetch the
sappotta fruit juice to Kalaimani uncle.
Kalaimani
answered all the questions of Solaiyappan one by one.
As they met
after a long time they conversed for hours together. Contextually, Solaiyappan shared the matter
of his elder daughter's marriage.
Kalaimani
said, "Don't worry, Solai! I know that boy. He is my student. I think he will be suitable for our
family.
You mean
Nesarathnam! Solaiyappan said.
Yes, said
Kalaimani.
But he
belongs to the North Arcot, said Solaiyappan in a shocking tone. We should not marry people from that region
in Pudukkottai.
These are
old tales. Now things have changed and
improved a lot. Don't stick to those
things. Be practical, said Kalaimani.
--------"TO BE CONTINUED...,"